Check it out kids, CNN did a piece on asexuality!
I know what I am. Just because you don’t doesn’t really matter — or affect the validity of its existence. Mostly because if everything worked that way, then a lot of things wouldn’t “exist.”
Fun fact: Sex is not a basic human need. You will not die without sex. That only happens in fan fiction.
*Straight guy asks straight girl to homecoming using a box of donuts*
Other girls: OMG that was so cute!!! I wish I could get asked like that!
Me: can I get one of those donuts?
okay i’m just gonna say this right now: there is no such thing as “betraying the label”. a label is not finite, a label is not sacred, a label is not a permanent fixture whose definitions we must force ourselves to abide
labels are a tool that we use to describe ourselves at our discretion. labels are meant to describe our experiences, not the other way around. labels are not meant to place limits on our experiences
labels are not going to perfectly describe every little detail of our experience of sexuality. human sexuality is vast and fluid and diverse and unpredictable. you do not have to feel guilty for exploring your identity. you do not have to feel guilty if your sexuality changes. you do not have to feel guilty if you need to pick a new label
if you happen to feel sexual attraction someday, it is not “betraying the label”. if you happen to feel sexual attraction maybe once or twice, it is not “betraying the label”. you have chosen a label that describes what you feel right now and what you have felt thus far in your life, and that is completely valid; you don’t have to worry about defining what you might feel in the future, or if what you feel in the future doesn’t “match" your label
if you feel you are asexual, then you can call yourself asexual. you don’t have to worry about if it might change in the future, and you don’t have worry about policing your experiences so that they always fit the definition. be ace and be proud
Oh the horror. Asexual ftw.
The motto of an asexual
Haha dying a virgin was already in the plans anyways. Not exactly a gut wrenching decision…